“You know the type- the woman who seems to effortlessly succeed at getting exactly what she wants with minimal effort and maximum likeability. We want to be her- to mirror her attitude and success.
It’s not as hard as you might think to get what you want, if you have the commitment and sense to go for it.
1. Ask for It.
Getting what you want always begins with asking the question. If you never ask, then there’s zero chance you will ever get it. The worst thing that could happen is that you will be told no, and no is always negotiable.
2. Be Willing To Do What It Takes.
If you want something, you have to ask yourself how hard you are willing to work to make it happen. How many hours are you willing to dedicate? What sacrifices are you prepared to make? Be eager. Be willing…”
Want to hear the last 3 tips? Read the rest, today over at Ms. Career Girl!
xoxo
Sarah
Very true, and I’ve read a lot of articles about one of the many differences about women and men in the workforce is that men are comfortable asking for it while women just wait. Got to put a stop to that!
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I agree!! We have to get better at asking for we want in order to see change!
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That concept is so foreign to me and I don’t know why! I think there’s a certain level of fear, not of rejection, but more so a fear of straight up exile!
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It’s terrifying to state your needs and ask for what you want! Hands down one of the hardest things to do and something that I am sure all of us struggle with! The best way to get over the fear is to try it…and see that you can get what you want!
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